Here
are some good tips:
• Don't try things in a crowded
club that you have not mastered through practice first in an
uncrowded place.
• The
floor is for dancing! Walk around the edge of the dance floor
rather than trying to thread your way through the dancers.
• Women should refuse to execute moves that they know the
partner hasn't the skills to lead when it puts her (and others)
at risk
• Same for the guys, some of the women are crazy - don't let
them be.
• The men are leading the women as though they are driving
a car in traffic - so the men MUST be aware of the surroundings
and know that when the partner finishes a move - will the space
already be occupied by another moving couple?
• Small controlled steps will prevent all of those painful
instep injuries that result when beginning dancers take big steps
- especially on the backstep - and step on other dancers.
• Take
off sharp rings, bracelets, hair pieces and keep your nails
short guys too.
• If
you are teaching, learning or practicing new moves, do it off
to the side of the dance floor.
• Do
not drink and dance. If you have had too much to drive, you've
had too much to dance.
• Make sure your breath is sweet and use deodorant.
What is dance floor etiquette? The art of dancing, whether
good or bad, in your own space. The art of not being all over
the dance floor, unaware of or totally oblivious to the other
people dancing around you. The art of having consideration
for other dancers and of not intruding into their space, just
as you wouldn't want them to intrude into yours. A problem today
is that too many people want to show off, whether they have the ability
or not, or if they do - whether or not they have space. They want
to turn, dip, flip and spin and don't seem to care that there are
others on the dance floor, too.Every dancer must adopt the philosophy
of dancing in the "slot", remaining in their own space,
completely aware of who is around them and of how much space
exists between them and the other couples. If the dance floor
is crowded, don't try to dip your partner or to do a fancy turn
combination because it will put your partner in someone else's
space and put your partner at risk. Learn to dance in a "contained" manner.
If the floor is really open and empty, only then can you get
fancy. If the floor is crowded, contain yourself, stay in your
space. Guys, remember that you are the one who
leads the lady into everything that she does "normally".
You must be in control at all times and know where you are leading
her, without invading another couple's space. Ladies, if you
are dancing with someone who is twirling you like a top, who
has no control and who has you out of control - stop dancing,
even if you have to pretend you suddenly have a sore foot! or
let your partner know that he needs to work on his control. You
do not want to be at risk because he hasn't the control to lead
you well. If he does not listen, if he shows no consideration,
then politely excuse yourself off the dance floor. Do not embarrass
yourself or the person you are dancing with. It is preferable
to being hurt yourself and preferable to hurting someone else.
Guys, if you are dancing with someone who does not know how to
turn, who does not have the footwork, or who is herself wild,
let her know that it is unbecoming or that she should take lessons.
If you are not a dance Instructor yourself, then recommend someone
that can help. Advise her to always be more conscious of the
dancers around her.It is our mission to make New Zealand
and the Dance communities of the world safer by having ALL dancers
be more aware and considerate of each other. We need to pass
this message on to others. Please cut and paste it into emails
of your dancer friends. Let's all be conscious leaders, followers
and messengers of proper DANCE FLOOR ETIQUETTE
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